There are lots of things I did when I was a lil younger that I wish I could take back..but I kind of see it now as a learning experience..

i gave total controll to my ex.. i mean total i was his sub.

with that controll he abused me and humiliated me, broke my trust,broke my heart and then he broke me.

It has taken me 5 years to become the person i am after being so utterly destroyed.

I don't know if i can trust anyone again but i'm finally willing to try.
no one will ever have that kind of controll over me again.

I think I should have fought harder somehow the first time it happened,but I just gave in.I think if I had I might be a different person today..but who knows

my ex forced me so many times that i just got tired of the bruises and would just lay there.


but now I would fight
going deadweight. men are squeemish make yourself puke on him, piss yourself, shit yourself all the while screaming and kicking, biting. I am totaly evil now i frighten men without trying now..

but it was not your fault.

I regret a few of my past partners. But, hey you live and learn. I have learned not to regret things it just doesn't do anything but give you grief..lol
I do however regret NOT sleeping with someone...I'll have to blog about that

totally agree with #1

ummmmm nope.

I'm with mominator. I won't be submissive to another person again.

hmm.theme developing here. I made some mistakes as a Dom when I went manic 10yrs back. I just took on too much and disappointed too many people, including myself.

Mom, speaking as a (sometimes) dom your story scares the shit out of me. Judging by the other doms I know and my own feelings, the last thing we actually want in real life is total control, it's actually meant to be *fun* - in the past I've disappointed a few people by wanting to discuss limits, safewords, oh yeah, and actually GETTING TO KNOW someone before I play. People can still get hurt, but I want to minimise the chances of that.
Sorry, rant over, I just have really strong views about "doms" who miss the point!

In answer to Persephone's question, the one thing I won't do again is agree to sex if I'm not 110% ready/into it - no-one's going to burst into flames just because I need a bit more time/attention first.

#10 REPLY... WTF?
The question here as stated above...
What have you done that you REGRET... if anything?
You seemed to miss the point here.
I really don't understand your rant. What useful purpose do you think that served here?

I regret saying to my partner when we were fooling around with some champagne..hey you know it really froths with salt or sugar and then demonstrated aforesaid effect on my genitals. The sugar was abrasive and extremely drying. Bad idea. Won't do that again.

#10... I'M SO SORRY! DAMN... I MISREAD THE COMMENT AND NOW REALIZE I SCREWED UP HERE.. GOING BACK TO BED.

I DID SEND AN APOLOGY TO PHOENIX07... I'M JUST NOT ALL HERE TODAY... I'M REALLY SORRY!

yes Warguppy... woof...