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wat gets u in da mood & wats your type?

deleted_user
deleted_user
to answer my question. i like a guy wit some swagger. a mothafucker whos sharp. got his shit together. cause i aint tryin to teach no nigga. and tells me exactly wat he wants from me.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Simply a womans' sexiness can get me in the mood :) My type are the simple, average, middle class, hardworking moms out there who get it done every day and night and still have time for their man :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
for me my girl has to have looks as well as personality
deleted_user
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I'm almost always in the mood to an extent but what gets me really going is a dirty look, flirt, or a dirty text message.

But what really gets me is just the touch of a hand on my back, grabbing my hand, or an unexpected kiss.
koolman
koolman
Beyond visual stimulation, when a woman likes to talk dirty to me and then asks "am I making you horny, baby?"...THAT gets me in the mood. Knowing that she's interested in MY pleasure...

I of course recriprocate by telling her how sexy SHE is...
deleted_user
deleted_user
LH... you're so realistic-- I love ya!
SpyderNCSU
SpyderNCSU
We are children but once, yet immaturity can last a lifetime.............geez........
deleted_user
deleted_user
I like mental foreplay first. There is just something about priming the mind that makes the body obey.
koolman
koolman
Oh,yeah--my type--any woman with a pulse LOL (just kidding, already got that).

Like tall, slender, leggy, athletic types who like to run or bike-ride but who are not totally butch or mannish and have a soft, tender center and like affection.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I like that Nature boy.....that was HOT!

I also love to make out slowly and passionately. That is such a turn on. Also a man who is into me as much as im into him...that helps.
deleted_user
deleted_user
First and foremost, I love a man who has a confident attitude, one that says, "I see how you work and I am going to seduce you nd make you waek." NOT cocky, confident. I love a sexy voice, one that teases when it gets low and uses hushed tones. I also love a man that knows how to handle me. Grasping my hair in his fingers and gently pulling, running a finger along an erogenous zone. mmmmmmmm - I get shivers just thinking about it.
LisaACOA
LisaACOA
I love that Nature Boy.. that makes for some beautiful love making.

What gets me going the most. Is when a man totally opens up to me. When he lets himself be vulnerable with me. I like a man that makes me feel comfortable to say or do anything. I like a guy who appreciates my nurturing type personality. I don't like a whimpy guy at all but I like a guy who feels safe with me enough to cry if he needs to.
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