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Vaginal Orgasm?

deleted_user
deleted_user
I have NEVER had a vaginal orgasm...does anyone else have this problem? Women always talk about how great sex is but i have NEVER felt that orgasm during sex. Is there anything i can do to actually have a vaginal orgasm? i mean i love sex because i love when my husband cums it turns me on! but it's not like sex is earth shattering for me! my husband always asks why we have sex like once a week and i dont have the heart to tell him it's because i feel like there is no point if it only feels good for one of us! ANY SUGGESTIONS??? PLEASE!!! i want sex to be fun for me too :(
Tray34
Tray34
Do you have orgasms at all?
deleted_user
deleted_user
I never have either..Im working on it though..trying some new things, but as long as I have clitoral stimulation I will orgasm hard and many times.
Community Leaderacuriousfish
acuriousfish
I think it's very common. Sometimes g-spot stimulation works..sometimes not.

If you are getting clitoral orgasms that might be it for most of the time.
deleted_user
deleted_user
one always triggers the other for me, so I have them simultaneously.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have internal vaginal orgasms all the time...
deleted_user
deleted_user
i have clitoral orgasms but thats it...i guess thats it for me! i have yet to feel the G Spot...im beginning to think i dont have one HAHAHA and Rob...ur a joke hahaha...
deleted_user
deleted_user
Thank you, thank you I'll be here all night...

Hope you find your spot:)
deleted_user
deleted_user
Its probably more common than you think. I know my wife cums alot easier from clitoral stimulation. Just gotta keep at it! ;)
lladyfairhair
lladyfairhair
Im not so sure. The clitoral O is GREAT of course. If he would go on and on ... It would feel like these INTENSE waves that would peak and then subside- just a little- and then another peak like through my whole body- nice of course but different from having an intense build up and then release like with a clitoral - how it fels like it comes from only the clitoris. I probably cant explain it, but I have wanted to know how they are different from those women who feel both types. Ladies please explain. LOL
deleted_user
deleted_user
Kendra, I'm so jealous.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Mastrubate by yourself and see a sex therapist if possible/
lladyfairhair
lladyfairhair
#11- Im pretty sure she is talking about Vaginal Orgasms -so its not going to do her any good to practice alone-she needs a penis there to achieve whats she is looking for. Also I think it would be alot easier for her to talk to her husband FIRST before she goes to a sex therapist.
Mrs Frank...I do think it would be incredible if a woman had a vaginal Orgasm every time she had sex - Lets say that in a dream land far far away... man makes woman orgasm - during foreplay once, then aaaagain... ( as we all know is very possible over an over for a woman)during actual sexual intercourse even better- at the same time as the man- but if that were the case... we would have to find other planets to live on- as we would have a population explosion- we just wouldnt know what to do with all the bazillions of people!
Ah well~~ I wish there were easy answers for all of us gals.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I don't think Ive ever had an orgasm.

When a guy goes down on me, I totally feel waves of rush running over me.
Its like an out of body experience.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I never did when I was in my early twenties but I do now. Maybe its to do with being more relaxed or having more self confidence.
Being able to orgasm from sex is wonderful but it's definitely not the only thing to enjoy about sex.
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