
Healthy Sex Support Group
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I have been with my husband for almost 4 years now and when we first met and discussed what are likes and dislikes in bed were I explained to him that I was a big fan of sex toys and needed clitoral stimulation to orgasm...well he was all excited about that in the beginning and said how much he likes to give oral sex and wanted me to even show him how I like to use my toys!, but now after we have been married awhile he seems to have a different view of that sort of thing.
He does not like toys..he thinks they are just "funny" and one time he even got up and left the room when I pulled out my little bullet vibe!! He says he just can't take them seriously...
Can anyone help?..I like my toys :(
He does not like toys..he thinks they are just "funny" and one time he even got up and left the room when I pulled out my little bullet vibe!! He says he just can't take them seriously...
Can anyone help?..I like my toys :(
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I guess I just need to remind him that its just to spice things up like wilson said.
Although could it be that he just does not care if get me off anymore? Im just saying this because there are other ways he could and he does not do those anymore either.
Then another time he said that he's afraid im too kinky. But then he tells me he loves me..so im getting mixed messages I guess.