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to roll over and go to sleep or cuddle

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Question for those willing to answer

is it ok to roll over and go to sleep after sex???

i am a woman and most of my friends complain when ttheir husbands/partners roll over and go to sleep after sex....they want to cuddle and talk but i find i dont want to talk....

what do you think????
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Personally I like the cuddle and talk after if it is not giong over the crap of the day!
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I love to cuddle and talk, but somemen are just selfish
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I don't mind cuddling after sex but there are times when I just want him to go to sleep. I don't know...I guess it depends on my mood.:)
Community Leaderacuriousfish
acuriousfish
Personally I would prefer some contact after sex, that's what I want and I hope my partner might want the same. I'm also ok if my partner just needed a fuck toy to releive tension.
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it all depends on who it is, i may want that person to HURRY UP and Leave. It also depends on how good the SEX was
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Hell No it's not ok for my bf to roll over and go to sleep after sex.

We always cuddle and kiss, praise and thank each other and most of all we say I love you.

Nothing beats the feelings of sexual, emotional and mental orgasms..be it all at the same time or simultaneously.
Tray34
Tray34
We always cuddle and hold each other after.Thats the best way to fall asleep.
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Awwwww Tray i am so jealous
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There are times when .. to roll over and sleep is wonderful .. however .. for the most part .. I must prefer to cuddle .. and to exchange with my lover ..
Even if I feel like sleeping .. somehow .. remaining close .. and cuddling .. even as we go off to sleep .. is something so precious ..
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I always kiss and hug afterwards,however im so tired in a nice kinda way.I just say im really tired and your too hot so i must roll.lolNever had a problem unless she wants more.Always up for that too.
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i like to cuddle with my guy after sex, most of the time. sometimes we both roll over and pass out.
bigguy3
bigguy3
I typically like to cuddle and talk ... but there are times when exhaustion will take over and you just need to sleep.

With my ex, rolling over and falling asleep became a regular thing for both of us ... sex became very mundane and unfulfilling ... didn't want to cuddle afterwards.
CarlaBentley
CarlaBentley
Hi, casper30!!!!
I like the slow come down, kissing and cuddling until all the sexual sensations slowly abate.
And then I usually like giggling and kidding around! LOL!!!!
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deleted_user
Spoons and sleep!
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i love to cuddle and talk, yes, not about the days events though. if we are so exhausted that we need to sleep, i prefer to cuddle and fall asleep in eachothers arms.
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