Healthy Sex Support Group
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As I have mentioned before, having a great sex life is new to me, so sorry if this discussion sounds naive...
I'm curious about talking during sex. My SO seems to really dig it. I have only had a couple of partners in my life (I'm recently divorced from a 13 year marriage), and have always been quite silent.
My new beau, however, likes to talk about what's going on. He likes me to tell him I want him to cum in me, likes to tell me how much he likes it when I cum to him, etc. This is so very different for me. I'm pretty prudish to be honest. I'm getting used to it though, I may even grow to like it. It's kind of nice to know for sure that he's ready or to let him know that I am satisfied or to ask him what he needs me to do to make him explode...
I'm getting used to the fact that I can be someone completely different with him behind closed doors than I am with the rest of the world.
Now if I could just get over the paranoia of saying something stupid.
Any thoughts on the subject?
I'm curious about talking during sex. My SO seems to really dig it. I have only had a couple of partners in my life (I'm recently divorced from a 13 year marriage), and have always been quite silent.
My new beau, however, likes to talk about what's going on. He likes me to tell him I want him to cum in me, likes to tell me how much he likes it when I cum to him, etc. This is so very different for me. I'm pretty prudish to be honest. I'm getting used to it though, I may even grow to like it. It's kind of nice to know for sure that he's ready or to let him know that I am satisfied or to ask him what he needs me to do to make him explode...
I'm getting used to the fact that I can be someone completely different with him behind closed doors than I am with the rest of the world.
Now if I could just get over the paranoia of saying something stupid.
Any thoughts on the subject?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Tell him what you like....be encouraging....look in his eyes when you say it...
It's easy for me to tell you to just say what feels natural to you, but I know it took me a while to relax into doing that - you'll get there, have fun along the way :)
Oh great.....Sitting at my desk at work...now my mind is wandering....
I have to agree with you there stuff like that is eeeewwwww..
now if it's running commentary on how good it feels to*****
thats something else alltogether ... :)