OMG...we are in the same boat!!! The other night, my bf was saying and doing all these naughty things to me and all I said I think was "that feels so good"...lol. I have to overcome this stupid inhibitions even without the power of alcohol.

I think what you may want to try is go to a public place with him (bar or club) with no undies on...that will initiate both of you to role play. I know that I cannot simply do it at home where I know I have to play girlfriend all the time...lol.

I have exactly the same problem. I think my bf would love for me to talk dirty to him...but I don't get turned on by it at all when he talks dirty to me and I feel like I sound like an idiot. I've done the school uniform...maybe start small. Like once I dressed up in a maid's outfit and when he came into the room, I used some cheesy line I saw in a movie.

You can do things like find cheesy pickup lines online and read them to each other and laugh and whatnot...and then when you two are out to dinner, whisper one to him. He might giggle, but I guarantee he will be thinking about getting home...etc...

Or maybe it will be easier for you if you try it on the phone or through a text message or something. While he's at work one day (and you know he's not in the middle of a meeting), send him a message telling him all the dirty things you want to do to him when he gets home.

Idk...I'm not much help besides those little one liner thingies. Good luck!

I've got no advice, only sympathy as I feel silly talking dirty. And it really doesn't do much for me anyway. BTW, I like the school girl outfit. Putting on the outfit and doing the pigtails is a pretty good role play if you ask me.

lol i cant do phone sex either, i serioudly cant weve tried and im just like uh no, lol. i cant keep a straight face at all, it feels so stupid....now maybe if i were really into it? who knows...yeah thats it! its not me, its him! haha....shifting the blame always makes me feel better, hehe

I think it's all about letting go of our inhibitions .. at least a bit .. to just have fun in the moments .. role playing can be fun .. as can many things .. if both partners are comfortable with it ..

Maybe just try to relax a bit .. what goes on .. between two lovers .. is only the business of the two lovers ..

Please try to not put value judgements on it .. such as "that's dirty" ..

There is nothing dirty about a man and a woman sharing intimacy ..

It's all in the way we think .. (my point of view) .. anways ..

Getting randy during sex with some crazy pillow talk is all sorts of fun. One of the last times I had sex with my stbx I tried stepping up the passion with a little pillow talk and she put her hand over my mouth and told me "Shush.....be quiet". Kills intimacy....

HEY, IT'S THE BP GIRL.

I have no problem doing any of this, getting drunk is not the answer!

You can try an outfit that YOU feel a little more sexy in.