Healthy Sex Support Group
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okay, so my husband and i can talk dirty during sex now, but not like that much. i think were both afraid to, or embarrased to go too far with it.
but now its getting to the point where i think i need it, and i need to get around being embarrassed or whatever. when were drinking its another story...we are completely comfortable with it, and we LOVE it, and we both know we love it, but we dont really do it unless were drunk.....
and then i know that he likes to role play, but i feel soooo STUPID doing it.....i cant act things out, i feel so retarded. is this something thats normal when youve never done it before? is it just something i need to start doing and then get comfortable with?? any advice?? the closest ive ever come to role playing is putting on my catholic school uniform, rolling my shirt up, and putting my hair in pig tails as i gave him head.......anyway........
PLEASE HELP ME GET OVER THIS!!!
but now its getting to the point where i think i need it, and i need to get around being embarrassed or whatever. when were drinking its another story...we are completely comfortable with it, and we LOVE it, and we both know we love it, but we dont really do it unless were drunk.....
and then i know that he likes to role play, but i feel soooo STUPID doing it.....i cant act things out, i feel so retarded. is this something thats normal when youve never done it before? is it just something i need to start doing and then get comfortable with?? any advice?? the closest ive ever come to role playing is putting on my catholic school uniform, rolling my shirt up, and putting my hair in pig tails as i gave him head.......anyway........
PLEASE HELP ME GET OVER THIS!!!
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I miss traveling with my husband. Has anyone found a specific site regarding cruising for widow/widowers or any sightseeing trips. Not interested in being with couples and kids,,,I realize a cruise ship will have a portion size of families and couples, but perhaps they also put together a part of the cruise ship for groups of widows/widowers????
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I think what you may want to try is go to a public place with him (bar or club) with no undies on...that will initiate both of you to role play. I know that I cannot simply do it at home where I know I have to play girlfriend all the time...lol.
You can do things like find cheesy pickup lines online and read them to each other and laugh and whatnot...and then when you two are out to dinner, whisper one to him. He might giggle, but I guarantee he will be thinking about getting home...etc...
Or maybe it will be easier for you if you try it on the phone or through a text message or something. While he's at work one day (and you know he's not in the middle of a meeting), send him a message telling him all the dirty things you want to do to him when he gets home.
Idk...I'm not much help besides those little one liner thingies. Good luck!
Maybe just try to relax a bit .. what goes on .. between two lovers .. is only the business of the two lovers ..
Please try to not put value judgements on it .. such as "that's dirty" ..
There is nothing dirty about a man and a woman sharing intimacy ..
It's all in the way we think .. (my point of view) .. anways ..
You can try an outfit that YOU feel a little more sexy in.