Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
ok, i have been here long enough to know what the female population on this subject is.
here is my dilemma - and let me just say I HATE IT!!!
i have a weak stomach in most situations. when my sister broke her nose and the blood was gushing out, i was over yonder gagging and tossing my cookies. while my sister was in such pain and bleeding, she was laughing at me, as well as the others that were there. no big deal though.
i gag at greenbeans *gags as i type the word*
i love to give oral to a man, but the problem is, whether its precum or cum, i start to gag. i have to stop immediately. when i think of precum or cum, i get excited and hot. the thought of giving oral ALL the way excites me. the thought of swallowing and having a man cum on me excites me as well. but when it comes down to it, seeing it or feeling it anywhere on me or even on the sheets just makes me gag. i can take it in me or on my privates down there but thats all.
what the hell is wrong with me??? is there anyway to overcome this??? am i alone in my freakdom??
please dont laugh. i hate this, i really do :(
here is my dilemma - and let me just say I HATE IT!!!
i have a weak stomach in most situations. when my sister broke her nose and the blood was gushing out, i was over yonder gagging and tossing my cookies. while my sister was in such pain and bleeding, she was laughing at me, as well as the others that were there. no big deal though.
i gag at greenbeans *gags as i type the word*
i love to give oral to a man, but the problem is, whether its precum or cum, i start to gag. i have to stop immediately. when i think of precum or cum, i get excited and hot. the thought of giving oral ALL the way excites me. the thought of swallowing and having a man cum on me excites me as well. but when it comes down to it, seeing it or feeling it anywhere on me or even on the sheets just makes me gag. i can take it in me or on my privates down there but thats all.
what the hell is wrong with me??? is there anyway to overcome this??? am i alone in my freakdom??
please dont laugh. i hate this, i really do :(
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
nothing in my childhood that i can recall!
i have not tried anything flavored, maybe i will give that a shot when the chance arises.
wow, i thought this post would get more responses!
I don't know what the answer is, but I think I may know the name of your problem.
My son is autistic and because of that is very "tactilely defensive". That's a term to describe being ultra sensitive to something -- and it can occur with any of the five senses.
Please do not think that I am implying that you are in any way mentally disabled!!! That just happens to be why I know about it.
I suggest you Google that and see what, if any, treatment and/or exercises might help.
And while I'm sure that you will most likely come up mostly with hits that ARE geared towards mentally challenged individuals, I'm sure that you are not the only 'normal' person who happens to have an issue in this area. And it's most likely a physical condition, rather than a psychological one.
But you should find a lot of info on how this is dealt with and perhaps some of what you find will be of help to you!!!!
Good luck!!!! It's always a bitch when our bodies don't jibe with our minds!!!!