Healthy Sex Support Group

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deleted_user
deleted_user
okay I've only been with three people my whole life! first was just a trial, and never did it again, until I met "biological" father of my kids, then the third is my current boyfriend, whom is wonderful... well my delimma is that I've only had sex with my boyfriend once, but I have been so used to my x-b/f. I was with him for 5 years, and well I have to admit that his penis was a little bigger than average. BUT my current b/f, doesn't. It was okay when we first had sex,but it wasn't as great as with my x. I need ideas to make it better, maybe something i can do... or he can do...I"m up for suggestions.
deleted_user
deleted_user
WELL I HAD THIS SAME PROBLEM WITH MY HUSBAND. BUT IT CAN ALL BE FIXED WITH THE PURCHASE A TOY. THE NAME IS TERA PATRICK'S PULSATING HEART. THIS TOY CAN BE WORN DURING SEX AND HAS 7 SPEED CONTROLS. IT'S VERY SMALL AND FITS OVER THE CLITORIS AND STRAPS AROUND THE WAIST AND THIGHS. ITS WORTH THE MONEY ABOUT 65 BUCKS.
CarlaBentley
CarlaBentley
Hi, family1st!!!!
Do I understand you correctly when you say that you've had sex with your current boyfriend only once?
There's always a period of sexually getting to know each other's likes and dislikes and what works best and what doesn't work at all, and there's really no way to bypass that period.
I guess experimentation and focusing on the emotional feelings you have for him might be a good way to go!!!
Good luck, take care, and HAVE FUN!!!!!
Tray34
Tray34
you have to experiment with different positions.You will be shocked how many positions can make the same man feel completely different.and the guys probably feel the same when it comes to women..?..
deleted_user
deleted_user
this is an outrage! The size of his wanker has nothing to do with it I'm sure. If you are sexually attracted to him the size shouldn't matter but ofcourse if he's lame in bed than he needs to work on that. I'm not going to recommend toys like everyone else because the problem is never the wanker (unless ofcourse its like 4 inches or less) but the sex drive. Get creative and rejuvinate your own sex drive by exploring your man and not by subtituting him, how can he get better at using that thing if you get toys to take over his job!


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deleted_user
deleted_user
Ive said it before.

It's not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean.
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