My girlfriend and I have messed around quite a bit and I can't even count the times I've gone down on her and she refuses to return the favor. I've asked several times and her best answer so far is that she doesn't want to. I know that she still hasn't gone down on a girl yet, but she says it's not a fear so much as just something that hasn't happened yet and a mutual friend gave her some pointers like writing the alphabet and all that, but she still won't do it. She says it's not that she hasn't done that and it's not that she thinks she'll do something wrong. But she won't tell me what the actual reason is, though. I think I know the problem, but I don't have a clue in the world as to how to fix it. See, when we were together the one time I DID get off...no, she wasn't giving me oral...I "squirted" on her leg and it completely freaked her out. I think she's afraid to go down on me because she doesn't want me to squirt in her mouth or on her face. But I offered to give her a fair warning before I climax and she still won't do it. How do you train yourself not to squirt, though? Is that even possible? Is that my only option? Please help! I think I'm falling in love with this girl and it kills me that I can't have her in every way. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks!
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