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Sexual Drought?

deleted_user
deleted_user
So ladies and gents, do you ever go through a sexual drought? I'm feeling one right now and I'm not sure why. I have a partner I'm sooo sexually attracted to but feeling very Asexual. I hate it! And I don't understand. I'm not on any meds. I'm a little stressed and feeling the winter blues but nothing major. And for those of you who do feel this way from time to time, what do you do to get things going again?
deleted_user
deleted_user
The wife and I had one for about 2 weeks...........just a quick kiss and that was it....Then we bot looked at each othe one night and BAM......it's on, Now we leave the house about once a month and hit a cheap motel and act crazy............
deleted_user
deleted_user
I haven't had sex for about 2 1/2 weeks now.

Only because I am trying to stay away from my "FWB" partner, who doesn't want a "relationship" (but always comes over for dinner and spends the night)

And looking more for a woman who is "relationship" material.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Never had a sexual drought that lasted more than a day or two because I'm not in the mood. I've had many sexual droughts, gone months at a time without having sex due to circimstances. I haven't had sex since September 24th, 125 days ago but who's counting. S better be prepared to hang on for dear life when I get back to NC.
deleted_user
deleted_user
125 days LMAO ..... Damn

Note to self, don't call Leather till she has been at Scott's for about 3 days ;)
deleted_user
deleted_user
LOL....you're damn right, the phone will be turned off. That boy isn't going to see the light of day for at least 3 days. He better be stocking up on his protein shakes and vitamins. ;o)
bigguy3
bigguy3
Yep .... for various reasons. Sick, injured, not in the mood, being single, etc. They have lasted anywhere from a couple of days to 2 years.
deleted_user
deleted_user
@ Mobi. Nah, I have a semi-geezer here but I don't want him. I want my NC man.
mysteryman73
mysteryman73
6 months lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
Maybe I should call Scott now and warn him but if I know you guys he is already on it ;)
deleted_user
deleted_user
Over 4 1/2 years. Never gonna do that again.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yeah, sexual droughts suck! I guess I broke mine last night, and I think in the process I might have stumbled upon a reason for my lack of sexy feelings. I'm going to post in the form of another question. Thanks guys!
deleted_user
deleted_user
does going without good sex for like 3 years count? lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yes Loves, I would say sex that isn't good sex would count especially the kind where you say afterwards "I wasted my time getting undressed for that?"
deleted_user
deleted_user
I've had sexual droughts... mainly because I've been single at the time. When I've been in a relationship, these have lasted a few weeks but usually it's because something is not right so we talked it over and that was it, solved everything and went back to having fun!
bigguy3
bigguy3
Boy, if loves and leather are right and not having "good sex" counts as a drought, then I had a drought of nearly 10 years ... LOL
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