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My husband and I are going to a halloween party tonight where I'm dressing up like a little girl, with cute PJ's, slippers a teddy bear and my hair up in pigtails. We need some spice in the bedroom and I was thinking after the party might be a good opportunity for a little fun. Is this a good idea or am I going to make a fool out of myself if I come on to him dressed like this? I'm open to any ideas.
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Give it a shot..it certainly can't hurt!

Just remember, if it's something you aren't comfortable with, then it won't work.
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So your saying if I'm going to go for it I need to be confident about it. That does help. Thanks
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I say go for it. If you both agree to it and into that kind of stuff......have a ball. There are so many costumes out there nowadays that obviously many are roleplaying. I do :) and it's a hoot.......believe me.
Community Leaderacuriousfish
acuriousfish
Hi, role playing is absolutely lovely but it falls flat if the other one isn't in the same space.

Maybe there is a way of testing the waters a little? Do you already know his fantasies? Or try an small approach earlier in the night so you can test the water?
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testing the waters is a good idea. as you are all ready to go to the party, maybe you can start there... tell him in an innocent voice that you have been a bad girl and need to be spanked!! or get a lollipop and suck and lick it seductively!!
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