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Really strange turn on

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I have a question for all of you guys. (or ladies can add comments as well) My gf is turned on by watching me pee. She wants to watch every time because she says it turns her on. I don't know what to think about that. I never had anyone watch me before.
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Golden showers...that is a fetish. It's not one of mine so I cannot contribute anything. Sorry.
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Personally, that would freak me out. I think going to the bathroom is a private thing. But if she's into it and it doesn't bother you...sure, why not? I don't see how it could hurt unless you are not comfortable with it.
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I like to see my man naked anytime, even when he is "peeing"! For me just seeing his penis is a turn on and has nothing to do withthe "peeing" part!
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for some people, golden showers, especially onto them, is a sign of their partner telling the world, "this person is mine and no one else's." It's a marking of territory, just as dogs or other animals do.
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My husband will pee with the door open and I see it sometimes. I wouldn't say it's a turn on. Like Sallybananas I like to see him naked. I like to watch him undress in front of me, or step out of the shower naked.
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If you are kewl with it .. what does it matter what other's think ..

She is so open with you .. about what turns her on .. I'd try to encourage her to continue ..

When two adults "play" .. there are no rules .. no right and wrong .. only connecting .. of two souls ..

From my perspective .. hope it helps ..
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My first wife and I played with this for a little while. It was fun and harmless. But if it worries you, I suggest you ask her why it turns her on and whether she has something more in mind than just watching. Otherwise, it sounds like an easy, harmless turn on and since you probably pee several times a day, you should have lots of opportunities to take advantage of your gf's frequent excitement. That's what I call a win-win situation.
Tray34
Tray34
Maybe she just enjoys seeing you naked..I love to see my husband get out of the shower dripping wet..I also like to see him with the towel wrapped around him because I know whats underneath...
GZUSthug
GZUSthug
OK, I'M STUMPED.
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watching my husband pee does nothing but watching him masterbate is another thing.. It really turns me on to watch this.but only for a few then i am ready to join in.
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Smoking my love smokes long dark cigarettes with cloves that is so hot spesh when she blows smoke in my face HOT.
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that is gross...really gross
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Nope.

The thought alone repulses me.
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HAhahaah!

Whatever floats her boat man...

You being comfortable with it is all that matters.

She could just be curious too considering she doesn't have a penis.

Talk to her about it...
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What #6 said...
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