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Quickies

deleted_user
deleted_user
Let's take a vote:

Quickies

(a) Fun way to express your love and desire when there isn't enough time for a long, romantic experience

or

(b) Dangerous road to go down having sex without taking time for romance

What do you think? Can quickies be a good way to occasionally have some fun with your SO or is it a sign that the romance is optional?
Tray34
Tray34
I say a..

Its a problem if its always a quickie but when thats all you have time for every now and then its fun..adds a little something to the relationship especially if its at an "inconvenient" time..
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oooooh why not?!

I can't always be bothered with romance & all that crap; sometimes I just want a quick fuck!
CarlaBentley
CarlaBentley
It's a fun way to express your love and desire when there's time or when you're in the mood for a short, ROMANTIC experience!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I think they can be good, if that is all that is ever happening, that would be a problem for me, whether there was commitment or not.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have to go with A.
joybells
joybells
a definately.
koolman
koolman
Are you talking quickies with ONE partner or multiples? If one partner, if that's all you have time for, why not? It's tough to make dough these days, and sometimes a quickie is all there's time for. Save the long, romantic interludes for a vacation or when you simply have more time. Quickies with multiples? Well, even if STDs weren't rampant (which they are), it's rather emotionally callous to do just quick booty calls with multiple partners, but, if that's what you want, hey, go for it.
roseBud23
roseBud23
I'd say it depends on the situation. I personally don't like the danger of "getting caught" and have close a couple times... Don't like that feeling and it took away from the comfort and fun I was having before they rudley interupted our moment.. sheesh!
koolman
koolman
rosebud: A lot of people DO like the thrill of being caught (hee hee). Personally, I think it would disrupt the passion in our hearts...
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