Does he want a relationship with her? If so, then he should consider giving it up. Actually, he should consider giving it up anyway, if he is doing it so much. It is going to interfere in any relationship he has. Sure, she might not be "open minded" about it, and others may be, but it really is a problem that can grow into a monster.
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Well, IMHO, if it's something that is being done behind the partners back, it IS cheating.

I personally have NO issue with porn, as long as it's done in an open manner. Keeping it hidden makes it dirty.

'course dirty can be good too... ;)

I agree with robert and confused and I also think it can be very addicting. One must very careful in this area.

i think that if she is so uncomfortable with it, he needs to stop and give it up. maybe one day she will come around, but if he wants to be with her, i think he needs to choose.

i used to be completely against it myself, and i did consider it cheating too, but last night my husband and i watched it together....so you never know. ...but if she is that against it, he needs to give it up. porn isnt something that you can make yourself be comfortable with if youre not.

and dc has the right attitude towards it. If it is something you can SHARE, and are comfortable with it...then it's okay. But again, if it's something that he feels he has to HIDE, then it is WRONG. Robert is calling it 100% on that. It is going to interfere if it not addressed.

Again, not something I've had a problem with, as long as I know about it. I'm of the mindset that it doesn't matter where you get your appetite, as long as you come home to eat!!!!

Looking at porn is not end of world. You would be hard pushed to find a man and indeed many women who have not at some time. Maybe share it and realise there is a lot worse. Try to be less judgemental. As Bible says Junot less thou be judged and let him without sin cast the first stone. Depends on porn if gross violent rape etc then yes the guy needs help but if hetro and just sex well so what. Maybe make their own erotic video sould lend them a book.

No, it's not the end of the world. However, looking at porn without the partner being aware is OFFSIDE.

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Was he hiding it from her and did he already know how she feels about it?
Or did it just never cross his mind that this was something that he should have made a point of bringing up?
There's more than one problem here.
Does he watch porn more than is healthy, in his own opinion? If yes, he should address that.
He shouldn't have to give up watching porn just because SHE thinks it's wrong and she shouldn't have to change her attitude and loosen up just because HE thinks she should. Neither party is right nor wrong, so the conflict shouldn't be geared towards determining that.
They need to work out a way that is satisfactory and fair for both of them and if they can't, and the issue is a big one for them, then they'd best split.
If they decide that one of them is totally going to capitulate and do what the other one wants, it may breed resentment. So, whoever 'loses' had better think hard about what it's going to feel like, as time goes on.
I don't see anything wrong with his watching porn, generally speaking and assuming that he isn't addicted to it.
Would she be upset if he masturbates? Or fantasizes about other women? More than likely both of those things are going on. I don't really see much difference in any of those things.

EVERYONE needs to lighten up. we were all born naked n if that damn couple adam n eve didn't screw up we'd still be nude, no big deal