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my mom update; she recieved a blood trans fusion on monday.althogh it brought her blood counts up it did not do what the oncologist had hoped.the big concerns are she borderline on kidney failure,congestive heart failure and as of an hour ago she is showing signs of jaundice.they have orderd test to check the liver ,pancreous,and the gall bladder. she has been givin a max of 2 months to live without treatment.even with treatment it may not make a difference. so here is my problem she has been specific about her wishes.test no treatment.but should i allow them to put her through the test.i have tried to stay true to her wishes.she is not able to make decisions for her self.her oncoligist feel anew treatment has a 60/40 chance of pulling her out of this.treatment or make her comfortable.
multiple meyloma is a nasty and very devistating cancer.espacially when it starts raging.on minute your ok then it will totally desimate its victim. at this point i value your prayers,opinions and point of views.thanks for all the support.
forrest
multiple meyloma is a nasty and very devistating cancer.espacially when it starts raging.on minute your ok then it will totally desimate its victim. at this point i value your prayers,opinions and point of views.thanks for all the support.
forrest
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I'd say a 60/40 chance is still quite a low chance - also has the oncologist said how much more time it would actually give her?
My uncle died of cancer last year, seeing what he went through with no real chance of survival, just treatments to extend his life by another few weeks, I'm not sure that's really doing someone a kindness. Keeping your mum comfortable is probably the best thing to do.
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It sucks. It totally fucking sucks. There are a couple of things I can tell you that won't make you feel better now, but might later. Hopefully, her suffering will be short. Hopefully, you'll be able to do what she wants, what she needs you to do for her. Hopefully, you'll realize you did everything you could and the guilt will ease.
Tell her you love her. Enjoy your time with her. Laugh, smile, share funny stories and dirty jokes. Dying sucks, but dying with people bawling sucks worse :)
Trust me on that, though it was the hardest thing I've ever done, I saved the tears for after she was gone. While she was here, I loved her and laughed with her and had a good time. She went quick and she suffered little.
GOD BLESS YOUR MOTHER, YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
Love and Support,
Lisa xx
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Do what she wishes because you love her.Do what she wishes because she loves you.Do what she wishes because you know it's what she wants.
I can't begin to imagine how you feel at this moment when you have to do this.I do know I will be there.I pray for you,your mom,and your family at this time and will continue to for monthes to come.For as long as you need.
With love and prayers Jane.