I am a happpy married woman. Been married 11 years. Yet, our sex life is almost nonexistant. The last few years have been really stale. Maybe once every month or two...We have three kids, we are inbetween jobs, things are busy. So there is lots of stress. Anyway, this makes me feel like he doesn't "want" or "need" me in anyway...He is most likely feeling that I don't want or need him either...I feel totally unattractive to him. I love him dearly and am seriously needing advice on how to get more action. I really need this connection with him ;) I want to spice things up but I don't know how to do it because my self confidence is gone. So any of you been through this and how do I get past it and get it on without feeling like I am forcing something that he may not want? I am open to any and all advice that you may have for me that has worked for you. Thanks so much for your help. BTW I am 36 and he is 34 is this normal? Help
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