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orgasm by penetration

deleted_user
deleted_user
i can not have an orgasm by penetration. Does anyone else have this problem? how do you deal? I can orgasm with oral, hand, and vibrator stimulation, but they all have to be clitoral. Is this even normal? help!
deleted_user
deleted_user
there's a couple other posts here like this, there's one called spit/swallow i think. others do have this problem. well i'm a guy, but thought i'd let ya know.
rainyangel
rainyangel
I find it hard also to have orgasm that way unless my clit is stimulated the whole time and then it's just a clitoral orgasm. I've yet to have a full internal orgasm. I just learned a couple months ago where my g-spot was at and have played around with that. I think that's the key really for internal stimulation.
Community Leaderacuriousfish
acuriousfish
the answer is yes, it is quite normal. just get your partner to give you a clitoral orgasm before and/or after penetration.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have had clitoral and vaginal orgasms. Granted, mostly have been clitoral, but internal vaginal orgasms do exist and yes they are difficult to obtaian. It can ruin the passion if you are trying so hard just to orgasm this way so just let go and if it happens it happens. If it's clitoral, fine. That's all the clit's good for anyway...
Community Leaderacuriousfish
acuriousfish
you can put a minature set of glasses on the clit so the clit looks like a nose. That's a second use for it. I'm sure I can think of more.
deleted_user
deleted_user
From my experiences .. not every woman can climax from penetration .. clitoral seems to work for every woman .. and that's kewl ..
There is also the g-spot orgasm .. Get UR guy to read up on this one .. it's not that difficult to find .. and .. from the reactions I have seen .. it's well worth developing ..

Hope this helps ..
Community Leaderacuriousfish
acuriousfish
Try combining clitoral and g-spot, that can be fun!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I don't orgasm every time. It depends on a lot of factors.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have never acheived orgasm through penetration either. You are not alone on this. * smiles* I havent given up on it though.
deleted_user
deleted_user
again, yes, its me again - i have never had an orgasm from penetration or gspot. i am getting depressed here!!

can someone please tell me if the sensation from gspot or penetration orgasm is the same?
deleted_user
deleted_user
i was 29 or 30 before i had a vaginal orgasm, it really rocked my world when i did. i had clitoral before that but nothing like this...for me is was being with some one i trusted enough to let myself go...so i could really enjoy the experience. the worst thing i used to do and sometimes still do is willing it on....i started thinking about it and it wouldn't happen.
deleted_user
deleted_user
my husband can rub my g spot, and it feels nice, but nothing to get me anywhere near orgasm. i dont know if i am trying to hard or if we are just not doing it right.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I used to have this problem. Then one day it happened. Since then it is pretty much hit or miss.
deleted_user
deleted_user
mmmmmmmmm penetration
deleted_user
deleted_user
ok kendra!!! tell me!!! is the penetration/gspot orgasm different from clitoral orgasm!!

please!! i need to know!!
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