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deleted_user
deleted_user
Ok i'm a real big fan of Oral sex. I love to give,and also to receive. But really really love to give. Am I the only male that would rather give than receive?
deleted_user
deleted_user
I AM GOING TO SAY YES. HAHAHAHA
bigguy3
bigguy3
Perhaps your experiences at receiving have been less than satisfying. I, for one, enjoy both equally but there is a lot to be said for someone that really knows what they are doing.
Tray34
Tray34
Can you call my husband please??:)
deleted_user
deleted_user
hahaha Trey I know just what you mean!
deleted_user
deleted_user
don't misunderstand me bigguy. wife is great at giving. But i really like to please her and give her pleasure
limogesguy
limogesguy
No, Jaybo, I completely agree with you. I'd much rather go down on a girl than have her go down on me. I've never gotten that much satisfaction from someone going down on me, but I do love to give. . .
deleted_user
deleted_user
I dont know if I'd RATHER give than receive, but i do definitely love to give it to my wife. And she LOVES getting it! :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
Both please.
But not at the same time; I can't concentrate!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I love both .. but .. 4 me .. giving .. and hearing and watching her being satisfied is such a turn on 4 me ..
So .. I guess if I had to choose one .. I'd say .. I'd rather be giving ..
deleted_user
deleted_user
yes i love to grab her thighs and watch her try to crawl away,ahd hear her moans is awesome
Tray34
Tray34
Ok Jaybo,stop..I dont get that satisfaction..NO FAIR!!!!
GZUSthug
GZUSthug
YEP, I'M DEFINATELY A GIVER, BUT SO IS MY WIFE, SO CAN YOU SAY 69? WE CAN...ALL THE TIME.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I must say that that I love to give rather than receive. Not that I don't like to receive it is just knowing that my man is satisfied. I just thought I would throw in a woman's point of view in the subject. I receive at times but to me the best thing is giving and knowing that you are sexually arousing the person that you are with, especially when there is love involved.
joybells
joybells
Wow!That is unusual!I wish my husband was like that!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'd have to go with mutual on that one...

I'm a big fan of the 69 position...

Nothin like layin on my back and being smothered:P
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