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Oral Sex

deleted_user
deleted_user
Hello,

I would firstly like to start out by stating that I do not intend to offend anyone/nationality with this posting!

I heard a few years back, that ladies from the US are more accomplished at oral sex than their UK cousins. This is because they perform this act with a greater frequency when younger as the wish to hold on to their virginity for longer!

Is there any truth in this? I don't I'm afraid. Your thoughts are welcomed!

To to quell suspicions I'm not planning a holiday to the US...........................yet!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I heard that Europeans are better and more open about sex...well at least the men.

Now about holding on to their virginity (for women)...I knew some girls who had anal sex just so they would still be considered virgins.

But I never heard that a lot of american women give bj to preserve their virginities.
deleted_user
deleted_user
never much got into bjs until this year. i just made my first wait for two years. no anal either until well after either. now i love it. lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
There are open minded and sexually aware inventive innovative people everywhere and also narrow minded prudes too Cosmopolitan is way
koolman
koolman
Well, by Bill Clinton's standards, BJs are not considered "sex", but I think it's all BS. But, if a woman wants to not lose her cherry and possibly get pregnant, BJs are an alternative, as well as anal. I've heard oral is a way to avoid AIDS, because the virus can't live outside 98.6 Farenheit body temperature, and it dies. OTHER STDs though like herpes live just fine in open air, so girls have to be just as careful with oral as any other type of sex. My personal feeling is that I love giving and receiving oral, better than any other type of sex. Perhaps the mouth and toungue have more dexterity than any other body part. Or maybe I'm just a lesbian in a man's body (laughs)...
deleted_user
deleted_user
You can get AIDS via oral sex. The chances are lower, but absolutley still a chance.

Hmm...where's Canada on that list?
deleted_user
deleted_user
hmmmm I had not heard that. My personal preference is to give a bj rather than have sex. I guess to me it is less personal. Less of the emotional entanglement than there is with sex.
deleted_user
deleted_user
My lady is 51, and up until recently (I think due to menopause), considered oral sex to be her high point. As far as accomplished, I don't know what that means. She squirts and contracts and has orgasms that leave her with a headache. She is totally open to me and we enjoy exploring our feelings, sometimes just being connected and not moving, feeling the energy flows between us, sometimes she grabs my head a rams it against her. For my part, I am totally satisfied when I give her oral sex--it is literally better than my own orgasm.
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