Not a movie, only because on the first date you'll need to talk more to get to know eachother.

My ideal 1st date would be going out to eat (maybe something fun like sushi or fondue)...then going somewhere unique/romantic..maybe somewhere with a nice view...then going bowling.
On another date it would be fun to play miniture golf or go to an arcade (love air hockey!)...oh yeah!, and going to look at christmas light while sipping champagne..funfunfun!!!

be yourself if she likes you there's no way you'll scare her off...
good ideas chelsea

A place where you can talk is a great idea: Hang out at a coffee shop, go for a walk/hike. Show her some of your interests. Do something you like, and relax!!! Good luck and have fun!

If I were going on a first date, I would like for it to begin fairly early so I don't have to be nervous about it all day, lol.


Maybe a nice "brunch" at someplace you enjoy. Then a walk someplace beautiful and peaceful. Then, some fun (putt putt??/bowling) putt putt is a little more quiet and "together" and perhaps end with a coffeeshop, or a drink at an cafe, then make a "nightime" date for the next time if the first went well.

Keep it light, enjoy getting to know her, and no pressure. Be yourself, you don't want to try to impress her, except for your Real Nice Man self!!

If she likes amusement parks, maybe that would be good - a ferris wheel ride, a double seated go cart ride, some good old fashioned "fun".

But, that is just "me" - you know her better than I do, so, consider what you would enjoy sharing with her.

Afterall, you want to enjoy yourself as well.

You'll do good, I'm sure.

do u have someone in mind simple????

Try not to get too physical on the first date, but DO look directly into her eyes, make gentle conversation, and slowly start talking about what you find desirable about her. If she has a gleam in her eyes for you, that indicates she likes this and you can move forward. If her eyes dart everywhere but you (as was my case in my relationship), it probably ain't going to work. People can "grow on each other", but there have got to be those initial sparks that indicate "anything goes".

It depends, are you looking to develop a RELATIONSHIP with this person, or just sex?

Relationship? Start with somewhere fun, but Chelsea is bang on with NOT the movies. Her ideas are brilliant, and depending on where you live, at this time of year, try the zoo, or something like that.

IF you're just looking for someone to screw, meet at the bar and have a few shots and kaPOW....straight to the car/hotel/bed.

A boxing match...women LOOOOOVE boxing. Get a quick bite to eat out in the casino, and get drinks ringside. After a few rounds on the undercard, she'll be putty in yer hands.

lol kart,never thought of that one

Do you have any idea at all what kind of things she likes? If you can find something you both like, that would be great!! I assume you have some things in common, since you're getting together.
Is she into Sci-Fi, too!!!? If so, could you somehow incorporate that into an outing?
If it were me, I'd love going to a museum!!
Good luck and have lots of fun!!!!

Well, my last 'first date' took me to Vegas and California for 2.5 weeks....you should do THAT! LOL

lol
she is very sweet and actually a couple of yrs older than me.she likes outdoors the beach but its too cold for that but was thnking of trying to get the ferry ride in there some how

take her to the beach if its too cold it gives you a reason to put your arms around her...or your jacket to show her you are there to comfort her.. start a fire on the beach bring some wine/cheese maybe a lil radio and talk/walk then lay...

well you dont have to lay.. i just may..
havent been on a real date with a chick for a long time.. its just always sex.. never anything genuine.. would be nice though