Hello all! I guess I am here for some advice. A bit about me. I am married and just had my 8th anniversary. We have three kids. I had a hysterectomy after the youngest. Before I met my DH, I was in an abusive relationship which left me with some issues.
Sex has never been our most cohesive area. He has quite the sex drive, while I am more of a "take it or leave it" person. I love the intimacy portion, but I am pretty vanilla when it comes to position and style and whatnot. I have tried branching out with him multiple times. I do not like giving or receiving oral. Anal sex is very painful for me. Letting him have FULL control is scary (due to my past). Domestic discipline was definitely triggering. However, he likes all of those things. A lot. I give in more often than not, because when I do not he gets mad and all of the sudden everything that is wrong with our house/family seems to be my fault. When I give in, he will get mad because I am not enjoying myself. I do not see how I can win. I love him and cannot imagine being with anyone else. I just don't know what to do. How do I make him happy? I have tried to force myself to enjoy these things, but that didn't work.
Any advice is appreciated.
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