So as some of you may or may not know, Im pregnant. Im about 5 1/2 months along. Things in the bedroom right now are good. A little slowed down here in the past few weeks but still averaging about 3-4 time a week. Im not too concerned about things right now because i know that we can pick up the pace but what i AM concerned about is the 6 weeks after childbirth. OMG!!! How are we to go 6 weeks, possibly longer, without sex??? I know there are other things to do and I plan on making sure I do everything and anything I can to meet his needs while Im, well ummm, out of commission. But if you know me and can recall some of my topic posts from the past (i was real active about a year or so ago), you know that I am not the most confident person in the world, especially when it came to blowjobs. I feel completely lost and i KNOW im not that great at it. That being said, I am not saying that I don't plan on giving him blowjobs during this time. Like I said a moment ago, I plan on doing what it takes to meet his needs. But there's my problem. The only thing I can think of for us to do during those long 6 weeks is blowjobs...my absolute weakest ability. What if they are just horrible and it's not satisfying him? Any suggestions or advise on other things I could possibly do or that we could possibly do for each other during these 6 weeks after childbirth??? Im getting nervous about this and I know, until I can get a better plan or idea, my anxiety is only going to get worse and worse.
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