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Well I hope this isnt off topic. But does anyone have a true love story to tell us about? I'll tell you mine will you tell me yours?
I met my high school seetheart when I was 15. I lived in a home for kids and was one of the lucky few that was able to attend public school. I met my sweetie there. I wasnt allowed to go to his house and rarley could he come for dinner, We seen each other everyday except weekends and when there was no school. He was my first..........and shortly after that we decided to run away,we did that twice before the home moved me out of town to foster parents and his parents signed him permission to join army. They completly seperated us. With me being a ward of the state finding me was next to impossible for him and I had no idea where to look for him...................22 years later..............kids wanted computer,got one,went to classmates.com.............found him,combined our family,and have been happy ever since. I always knew he was my soul mate and now even our parents realize it too. Only wish we hadnt missed out on the lost 22 years.
I met my high school seetheart when I was 15. I lived in a home for kids and was one of the lucky few that was able to attend public school. I met my sweetie there. I wasnt allowed to go to his house and rarley could he come for dinner, We seen each other everyday except weekends and when there was no school. He was my first..........and shortly after that we decided to run away,we did that twice before the home moved me out of town to foster parents and his parents signed him permission to join army. They completly seperated us. With me being a ward of the state finding me was next to impossible for him and I had no idea where to look for him...................22 years later..............kids wanted computer,got one,went to classmates.com.............found him,combined our family,and have been happy ever since. I always knew he was my soul mate and now even our parents realize it too. Only wish we hadnt missed out on the lost 22 years.
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Well, after the first few months and hearing all my married fellow soldiers talking about their wives and girlfriends, i started feeling lonely. I had lived with my family since my divorce with my kids and it was starting to get depressing to know there i had no "someone special" to go home to :(
After about 5 months, we got regular access to the internet and somehow i found myself on AmericanSingles.com and had found their chat rooms to be fun and a way to pass time. I started up a friendship with a woman named "sunshine" and finally i got a pm asking me if i wanted to private chat, so i did. Before tho, i went to her profile to learn a bit about her and was shocked to learn that she lived in my town ! lol
So we spoke for a bit and i was getting around to asking her where exactly she lived. She gave me her street name and it turned out she lived right behind my high school and i told her that we lived less than 5 minutes apart !
AS luck would have it, i was due to come home for 10 days of R&R and so we scheduled a dinner date. She had no pic of me, but she sent me one of her and i found her very atractive. Knowing that i was overseas, she also made it a point in letting me know that i was NOT to expect anything sexual to happen lol Of course i said that was fine.
I came home and i even told her that i was meeting a couple other ladies who lived locally before her for lunch and what not and she was okay with that. God, the others were nightmares ! lol
So finally came our date. We agreed upon a nice italian restaurant and decided to meet there. She asked what i looked like and so i told her and said i was in a leather jacket and since i didn't have any other shoes, that i was wearing my desert issue boots (not bloused up of course).
We clicked instantly and after i put the kids to bed, i went over to her house and we had our dates, dinner ,movies, walks ,etc. Surprising to say, the 10 days went pretty slow...ate a ton of home cooking AND my fav fast food and plenty of BEER ! lol
Anyway, the last night we spent it alone at her place on the floor, cuddling and watching movies. Yes...i was hard as a rock ,and she knew it, but i respected her wishes. She walked me out to my truck at the end of the night and i turned to her and said "I know this is soon, but i have to tell you that i think i love you". She replied " I was SO hoping you'd say it first !" lol
She said that she would wait for me and i told her how hard that would be what with the media and us having no idea how long our tour was going to be. She said she was willing to go thru it, and so we kissed one last time and off i went.
We finally got phones and so we were able to text whenever we could. Now bear in mind, i was 8 hours ahead of her in the states and so when we made our computer appointments at the only time it was available for me, it would be 4 am her time, and she is NOT a morning person ! lol HOWEVER, every day that i was in kuwait, there she was, up at 4 am waiting for me to sign on !
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In that time, and after we learned that i would be there for 15 months (9 months after we first met) she had met my parents and my children at their house and gladly took up babysitting duties so as to give my parents a chance to get out a couple nights a week.
Whenever i would hit a wall there emotionally and was in kuwait, all i had to do was text her and she would stay on with me for hours talkng me thru it.
Then the day finally came....we got our orders to hop on a bird and come home. After the tearful reunions (i hadn't seen my kids for 9 months) and they were in bed and my folks were settled in, i asked my dad if i could use his truck (she couldn't be at my house for family reasons). My dad knew why and he threw me his keys and just smiled and said "Have fun son, see ya' in the morning." lol
It took me about two minutes to clear the distance between our houses with a brand new Lincoln Navigator with a V8 and lead foot ! lol
I rang the doorbell and there she was. We never made it upstairs.....:) We made love in the living room.
A year later, we went to Washington D.C. to visit her family for a vacation. I took her to the Iwo Jima memorial (you all know i'm a jarhead, right?) ,her aunt and uncle knew what i was going to do and so i saw then hold back as we got to the front of the statue. I turned her towards me and actually got out the little mental speech that i prepered and then i got on a knee surrounded by other tourists,..and then she said yes.
The rest is history.
Ok darlap please share.....LOL mine is kinda that way too since he was my first..........and has been the best and im not being bias LOL but lust I do just as much as love LOL