I have been married for 2 years. I love sex .... But lately I don't want to have sex at all, no matter what he does. For the first 1&1/2 years of our relationship. He would always tell me NO when I wanted to have sex. He wouldn't notice if I put on lingerie and got myself all fixed up,and if I climbed up on him he would lean over and watch tv. He once asked me how any man could keep up. WHAT??? My thought was are you serious most men would be happy! I would cry myself to sleep when he would loose his erection, or just couldn't get it up. Because in my mind it was all my fault!! He even went so far as to get put on viagra (but only took it twice) In the past few months he is wanting it more, hasn't lost an erection (still no viagra), however I have lost my confidence. I don't ask for it anymore(whats the use) I don't do anything to let him know if I'm in the mood or not. Now I'm telling him NO. I'm pretty sure I'm holding on to some resentments WHY didn't he want me before? WHAT was wrong with me before that isn't now? I just don't understand!!! I'm the same person, I look the same, act the same it just doesn't make any since(at least to me) I don't know how to move on and get past it and work on a better sexual relationship with him. I don't want anyone else but I don't want him either.... PLEASE HELP!!!!
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