
Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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What is good foreplay? What really gets you in the mood? I mean, really, I try to be romantic but after four kids and not nearly enough time I don't really feel certain that I know what to do to get my wife in the mood. It isn't that we don't have a great sex life, we enjoy each other's bodies but...
I'm looking to give her more sexually&emotionally. I really want to know some new ways to light her fire.
I'm looking to give her more sexually&emotionally. I really want to know some new ways to light her fire.
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Think back on all the things that seemed to really turn her on in the past and kind of plan the scenario.
Arrange for the kids to be elsewhere for an evening (Or YOU guys get away for that length of time!) and ask your wife how she would like you guys to spend it!!
Take over all the household chores -- including meals -- and tell her that you really appreciate how hard she works. Throw in a foot rub or a massage if she likes that sort of thing!!
I would think that just the fact that you were making such an effort, that you WANTED to, would be a great turn on!!!!!
Good luck!!!! I hope you both have a great time!!!!
It nice that you want to do something to make her happy.
Sometimes we 2 familiar wit them, take ya time, romance her, do the wine dine thing. Find out her love langage & do it for her. :-)