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deleted_user
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What is good foreplay? What really gets you in the mood? I mean, really, I try to be romantic but after four kids and not nearly enough time I don't really feel certain that I know what to do to get my wife in the mood. It isn't that we don't have a great sex life, we enjoy each other's bodies but...
I'm looking to give her more sexually&emotionally. I really want to know some new ways to light her fire.
deleted_user
deleted_user
makeout with her. think about what it was like before you had sex all that groping and smooching.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Nothing is a bigger turn on for me than a really great kiss. One with all the love in the world behind it. I mean kiss her like you REALLY mean it. The kind of kiss that makes her weak at the knees and just takes her breath away.
CarlaBentley
CarlaBentley
That so depends on what your wife likes!!
Think back on all the things that seemed to really turn her on in the past and kind of plan the scenario.
Arrange for the kids to be elsewhere for an evening (Or YOU guys get away for that length of time!) and ask your wife how she would like you guys to spend it!!
Take over all the household chores -- including meals -- and tell her that you really appreciate how hard she works. Throw in a foot rub or a massage if she likes that sort of thing!!
I would think that just the fact that you were making such an effort, that you WANTED to, would be a great turn on!!!!!
Good luck!!!! I hope you both have a great time!!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
uh.......this is just me...but I love giving head as my foreplay. It makes me really wet and hot and ready to fuck. What really does it everytime is when I scoot my ass up to his cock and wiggle around and he teases me with it all around my asshole and pussy.....OMG! Instant lube baby......instand lube!
lladyfairhair
lladyfairhair
Long PASSIONATE kisses. Read all you can (if you even need to -that is) about how to be THE best kisser you can possibly be. Take your time and dont try and go straight for the goodies LOL. Kiss her to the point shes almost begging you for more. Maybe grab her hair in the back(not TOO rough) and then kiss her really slow and softly. Kiss her on the neck... move up to her ear and whisper to her what you would like to do to her...of course make it a little bit X rated version - but not repulsive. Of course this is me and may not be what your woman would like. We ARE very different sometimes, BUT... I think I can BET you anything straight across the board, that if a guy cant KISS...its a HUGE turn off. It probably wouldnt matter what he did after that point. IMHO>
It nice that you want to do something to make her happy.
deleted_user
deleted_user
lol, I bin there 2 bud.
Sometimes we 2 familiar wit them, take ya time, romance her, do the wine dine thing. Find out her love langage & do it for her. :-)
Tray34
Tray34
Good passionate kissing,caressing,touching(not groping for me).Being really sweet and tender..
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