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keeping it alive

deleted_user
deleted_user
ok name the things that keep love alive for you.
LisaACOA
LisaACOA
The little things mean alot!!

~hide little love notes
~cards
~a single rose
~breakfast in bed
~foot massages
~back rubs
~being appreciated
~drawl her a hot bubblebath and light a candle

~little thoughtful gifts
~chocolates on her pillow
~just because calls
~hot text messages
~respect

"You can have respect without love but, you can't have love without respect."
deleted_user
deleted_user
Good response, I am thinking of printing it off and giving it to my partner!
joybells
joybells
Surprising me with flowers for no reason-just because.
back rubs
leaving love notes
it's the little things that he does
joybells
joybells
Surprising me with flowers for no reason-just because.
back rubs
leaving love notes
it's the little things that he does
koolman
koolman
Continuously making time for affection and communication.
koolman
koolman
My last girlfriend didn't like the "mushy" stuff like flowers (they go bad after a day) and candy (you want me to get fat?). Ahh, she was cool...I miss her.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Lots of oral is the way to stay in my affection!
deleted_user
deleted_user
LMAO Curvy! Works for me too!
bigguy3
bigguy3
Respect and communication. Love dies on the vine if you don't have these in a relationship.

Gifts and romantic gestures can go a long way, but to me, nothing is more romantic and sexy than emotionally opening up and being completely honest. This demonstrates respect, trust, and keeps the lines of communcation open.
Tray34
Tray34
Abusehurts you got it so right..Its the little things that keep it alive.Some men forget about the little things.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Communication .. plus all the other things mentioned ..

It's about touching our partner .. in very special ways .. her heart, her mind, her soul .. and of course .. her body ..

Keeping things alive .. some say it's work .. 4 me .. I enjoy the rewards .. so I guess it's not really work 4 me ..
deleted_user
deleted_user
Dunno, when I actually fall in love I will let ya know!
deleted_user
deleted_user
attentiveness
deleted_user
deleted_user
full body massages with oils that heats up :)
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