Okay, as you may have read before my boyfriend has been having some difficulties cumming. The other night we had the most amazing sex and he finally came! But... he woke me up the next morning wanting more... in the end, he coulnt cum again!!! Then last night, I was giving him head... he wanted to have sex but I sould tell he wouldnt have been able to cum from sex, so I told him I wanted the night to be all about him and sucked him till he came. (dont ask how I knew he wouldnt be able to cum from sex, its just something i knew... he admitted he probably wouldnt have been able to later) but see... I dont understand. Is it me? He says its not me, that he really doesnt know why he cant cum sometimes. We've even taked a break for a few days... its like speratic. Sometimes he can, and others he cant. We went to the clinic and we are both clean so its not like he's got something and thats why. Ive asked him if somethings bugging him... maybe he's stressed about school/work or what ever, but he says he's good. He's really open and talks to me about everything. We decided maybe going a few days without seeing eachother will help, ya know... just some space. Get some rest, get caught up on things... but then at night he'll call me saying he misses me and wants to see me. We've tried new places and new positions, we'll stop right in the middle and ill give him head and then continue... it seems like we've tried everything. He says sometimes he just "loses focus" and he just "misses it"... now see, im not a guy and that confuses me.... PLEASE HELP... any thoughts on things to try or maybe thoughts on whats going on? Anyone else go through this???
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