hi ive been married to the same man for 14 years and two years ago when i was undergoin/recovering from surgery i found him chatting and swapping pics with other men. I was distraught and chose to forgive him ashe said he was looking for support while i was ill.I have lost weight but he still doesnt seem to initiate sex and i really cant be bothered to do the initiating as i feel he just isnt interested in me anymore? when he initiates things its awquard and puts me off so i say im not feeling great which is actually because of his rubbish attempts but if i say something he wont bother at all? I have bought handcuffs and have loads of toys but it doesnt make him interested - is he a closet gay or what?
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