Healthy Sex Support Group
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Just a thought but all those people in the lack of nookie group may want to consider the following.
Sex comes naturally and frequently when we are touching each other intimately 40-50% of the time we are with each other.
My latest thought is that I always try to embrace my wife now when we are sleeping. At first she was a little reluctant but now she is beginning to like it and will invite me to embrace her.
Think of it like this one hour of sex requires 5 hours of intimate touching in order for people to be really comfortable with each other.
What do you guys think?
Sex comes naturally and frequently when we are touching each other intimately 40-50% of the time we are with each other.
My latest thought is that I always try to embrace my wife now when we are sleeping. At first she was a little reluctant but now she is beginning to like it and will invite me to embrace her.
Think of it like this one hour of sex requires 5 hours of intimate touching in order for people to be really comfortable with each other.
What do you guys think?
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In my head...So in my last post, I talked about how me and my boyfriend of little over 4 months and me had our first squabble on Sunday. I appreciate your guys' feedback and see where I escalated and engaged in some very negative behaviors. Thank you!Since then we have been texting the same, but it is a little different. A lot of one word replies and being active on social media without replying...
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I struggle with my confidence in bed. I am someone who is very much into almsot any and everything (with some exceptions) but for some reason, when it someone's to hooking up with someone new I always freeze. I get so nervous, no matter how bad I want it.how can I build my self confidence so I can get over this?
I tend to agree with KIT on this one. One of the things I wanted my husband to do is show more affection. Kisses, Hugs, cuddling..... But none of that had lead to sex. I still have to get him drunk before I get any....
My problem at the moment is finding someone I want to get close to in the first place.
Any increase in intimacy in a relationship must be a good thing.
Intimacy is the key to a relationship...if you cannot connect via a hug or a kiss or simply holding hands then sex aint gonna happen and the relationship will break down on other levels...
BINGO: hence Y I am divorced...
You are right at least you know now what you need now from a relationship.
Communication had broken down in my marriage my thought was this if she will not begin to accept my carresses once more we are finished.
Of course there were alot of arguments and heart to heart discussions to reach this point.
My mother told my x to hold my hand...he was just done...try not to be done...touching is so sensual...
Lizz, I am not done I am just waking up in a way. I have many friends here that have helped me in that.
If there are any men out there who want a good tip on relationships sexual or otherwise I say this:
'Never take your partner forgranted.'