Some guys are more squeamish than others. you need to discuss it with him so he is a aware and you can make a decision together.

I was worried about this too. My advice would be just to shower before you go to bed and make sure you've been to the toilet. There shouldn't be anything there and it certainly won't smell. If you're really worried, have the lights off and a pack of baby wipes next to the bed so you can hand them to him straight after. That way you won't be concerned when he goes to shower or whatever.

That doesn't always work Icon. And a guy probably won't draw your attention to it. As long as he is aware though there shouldn't be a problem. Of course, he can use a condom.

My husband and I enjoy anal sex very much and have been doing it for 9yrs. In those 9yrs we've only had a 'mess' once so don't be too concerned about it, it's usually a pretty clean process suprisingly. Just relax and enjoy and use plenty of lubricant for ultimate pleasure.

An enema is always an option...

Probably a good idea to have him double-bag it with 2 condoms anyway just for health reasons, use lots of lube and whatever comes out comes out. Maybe you two could do it in the shower so that if there's anything there, the water will instantly wash it away...?

youll never enjoy it if your uptight about it.messes are pretty rare if you do as icon suggested.ok if you have a colon prob there might be a little more of a mess.enjoy and relax

You just tell him to "ENTER AT YOUR OWN RISK!" LOL. The "mess" has happened to me before, it sucks, but dont be worried about it too much. Just be sure you arent having diarrhea that day :)AND keep the baby wipes next to the bed. P.s there will be some blood your first time too.

Yeah me too, My hubby wants to try it but it scares me. Is it going to be alot of blood because i've heard some terrifying stories

jeez, I posted this nov. 5th and it's coming up again, I'm kinda embarrassed I posted it to begin with.lol I got messaged too about it saying if I want to talk about it they're there for me. lol It was when I first signed on to this site. ah well, it's all good. Yea I experienced it once since then and no problem. I haven't been very experienced sexually but had a new boyfriend and wanted to experience things and learn more. Have since and it's all good. Not with him anymore though and forgot I even posted this. ah well, such is life.

Make sure you are comfortable and feel safe trying! If you want to stop at anytime, you should be able to. Take it slow and easy!

I never bled the first time I did anal and Ive not heard of anyone bleeding either. Ive not head or the"mess" situation either.

If he will be gentle and you use plenty of lube there shouldn't be any blood. It can be a really good experience if he take's his time use lots of lube and your partner listen to you.

I love these topics sometimes.

Ummm, if I am putting my wick in your ass then I would be expecting some odor with the poo poo. No ass will smell like that the maids were around recently up inside there cleaning. A smell of garden flowers blooming in the spring will not be the expected result that one would normally have. Just make sure that the outward area is presentable. A guy will not be happy if ones ass is bushier than his or has the constellation of pimple stars all over it. Also, make sure that you do not have the runs either as springing an oil well is not fun and pretty sight to see.

There is a reason they call the person doing it to you, the turd burglar. Chances certainly are there that captain winky and and captain stinky will be introduced together so don't fret it. It is an exit hole and poop is certainly expected in the poop chute. Just tell your partner to slap a jizz jacket on his wang before taking the hershey highway and then you will not have to worry about any mess you might create. Good luck!!

Cody.. you crack me up..Icon, do you know my husband? All of a sudden, he started keeping stock of baby wipes. Then aghain... I'm in the infidelity community too.. go figure

you can always wash the area out with water... enema if you will