ok here is my situation. i keep having fantasies about my wife and i having other sexual partners. it seems to get me very aroused. it is so bad that during sex i often ask her to tell me about some of her past sexual experiences. she has cheated on me once and initially i was very upset. but it seems as though the thoughts of it turn me on more. i dont know if i want to watch her with someone else or if i just want us to have casual sex with others. her and i have talked about it and i think she would be ok with it. but am i normal to fantasize and literally dream of my wife gettin stuffed by some other man. i realized this was a problem for me when i started to have dreams of this. if any one has ever explored this with there significant other please let me know how it made you feel.
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