Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
As I have said in other threads, having a rewarding sexual relationship is new to me, so my next of many questions is:
How often is normal?
I don't want to let this great thing turn into just sex. I really love and want to develop every aspect of our relationship. I'm sure there's no magic number, but can you enjoy the sex SO much that you forget about everything else? Or maybe it ebbs and flows. Maybe there are periods of time when the focus is sex and other periods of time when the focus is elsewhere?
Honestly, maybe this seems like a naive question, but I REALLY like the sex but I want the whole relationship.
Any advice?
How often is normal?
I don't want to let this great thing turn into just sex. I really love and want to develop every aspect of our relationship. I'm sure there's no magic number, but can you enjoy the sex SO much that you forget about everything else? Or maybe it ebbs and flows. Maybe there are periods of time when the focus is sex and other periods of time when the focus is elsewhere?
Honestly, maybe this seems like a naive question, but I REALLY like the sex but I want the whole relationship.
Any advice?
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
Just remember that it is an emotional and a physical act, and not just physical. As long as it is a shared experience, 24 times a day could be healthy.
People seem to have cycles. They are more sexual at some times than others. Peaks and valleys. So it does ebb and flow to an extent. The best is when you are both at the top of the hill so to speak. lol
Sounds like you are on the right track. You want the emotional side. As long as that is what your work towards, you will have a healthy sexual relationship.