I often feel the release of tension and such, but do not produce semen sometimes, from a male perspective. So it's a person by person basis as to "what is an orgasm". Some people are just quiet. I prefer louder women, myself!

u know when u have one, you get a feeling in your body which is intense and feels like nothing else, you would know if yu had one, getting wet is just the natural process if your aroused, orgasm is the feeling you get

I normally soak the bed. There's no faking that....

When I experience an orgasm its like a flushing feeling throughout my body. I get all warm and really there is not way to describe how you feel. Its awesome!!!

I'm thinking you may not have yet. Not to get real personal but...what does he "do" to you? Obviously he is doing something right (since you get "really wet") but perhaps it isn't enough or not the right thing.

IT'S KINDA LIKE "HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN YOU'RE IN LOVE?" ...YOU JUST KNOW. IT'S VERY DIFFICULT TO DESCRIBE. IT'S UNBELIEVABLE AND IT'S NOT SOMETHING THAT AFTER IT HAPPENED YOU WOULD BE GOING "DID I HAVE AN ORGASM?"...YOU WOULD BE SCREAMING "OMG! I CAME!" PLUS BEING REALLY WET DOESN'T CONSTITUTE ORGASM NOR DOES SOUND. SO FORGET EITHER OF THOSE. IT'S YOUR BODY RYTHMICALLY CONTRACTING IN THRILLING SPASMS...OH HELL...YOU'LL JUST KNOW.

Well for me it feels like a herd of horses (do horses come in herds)are galloping along my old fella covered in feather dusters!!

When they get to the end of it they tend to stay put for a while and then make a brake for it...........thats the good point!!

Its like all my tension get swept away. I am quite noisy as I'm coming and then I relax as the big O arrives. My whole body shudders and my legs twitch if its really good, lol ;)

If you masturbate, then you must know what orgasm is.

Andy..I don't think horses come in heards. I think they come by themselves. HA HA Come...herd...by themselves...Come..alone... HA HA HA..I just kill me sometimes....

(couldn't resist)

Orgasm is the most intense pleasure there is.When you have one,you'll know.

It VERY obvious, you will know for sure when you have one.

Generally, you need to know how to give yourself one, before someone else can.

Like everyone else has said, you will know when you have one!
When I have one, it feels really good and my vaginal muscles contract while I'm having it.

Ok everyone covered the first part of this but onto the noise thing. Since apparently you havent had an orgasm, you need to know not all of us make alot of noise. Some make no noise at all. Even if it feels really good. You'll figure out the noise after you figure out the orgasm thing.

All these perverts and nobody can explain an orgasm.Good God!

You are all of a sudden transported to another world.It's as if Scotty beamed you up.

You don't see clearly.Your vision is blurred.You feel an intense sensation run through your entire body.Your skin feels as though it is receiving soft acupuncture all over.Like it's crawling but it feels fantastic.

Your nipples become hard as rocks and more sensative to the touch,pinch,lick,suck or nibble.

You lose control of everything.Your body and reactions are moving on their own.You can't control what sounds you make or words you say.You can't control your vaginal muscles or your legs or your arms.You could smack him in the head without meaning it.

You are powerless and it feels phenomenal.

If you are lucky,as soon as the wave moves over you and the hair on your arms has gone own,another one hits you.

Shit now I want one.It's been too long.