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How do i stop being horny?

deleted_user
deleted_user
i have a problem i seem to be unusually horny most of the time, i could do it many times a day and still be up for it.

Yet dont know how to relieve it as since fiancee died have not been with anyone though would really like to at times like this, and no guy or woman seems interested in me anymore

I just want to be fucked good and proper, yet as no guy or woman is interested. any body got any other ideas on how to relieve being horny? Or have any contacts?
deleted_user
deleted_user
We heard you the first time. And the second. Now you're getting old...
deleted_user
deleted_user
Indeed!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I need an answer too. I think about sex constantly. I have only been having sex for about a year now and I'm hoping it's because it's still new. I love the feel of penetration. It's pure ecstasy. I'm no sex addict, I just enjoy it. I have tried everything. I understand is all I can say.
Wilson
Wilson
Sounds like a do it yourself project. There are plenty of toys out there that can help and of course you have your fingers and other things around the house you could use. I know it is better to have the real thing but at times you have to make do.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I got toys out the gazoo!!! I play with them a lot. I also have PSA which is Persistant Sexual Arousal. Look it up, it's for real. It doesn't help matters either. Toys are a great aid though cuz I'm married to a much older man. Thanks Wilson.
Wilson
Wilson
Even if he is older he can still get you off when you need it. Even if he can't get it up he still has fingers and a tongue. I would think he would love keeping his tongue busy all day like that.
deleted_user
deleted_user
DIE ALWAYS WORKED FOR ME
deleted_user
deleted_user
I agree Wilson and I'm trying to work on that as well. I've even offered to let him "watch" me play with my toys. He has some. He has helped some too. I believe he's trying I guess.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Toys...
koolman
koolman
I have a counter-question: Why would you WANT to stop being horny? It's the priveledge of youth! Enjoy it while it lasts! Get plenty of dildos and sex toys and pleasure yourself whenever the urge arises. Toys are clean and disease-free, unlike fucking a lot of horny guys only interested in chasing their own dicks and could give a rat's ass about you. If you're horny, pleasure YOURSELF. Then you'll be able to play SOMEWHAT hard to get when the first guy comes along and you hold out until you get to know him on an emotional level.
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