when i learned about sex as a kid, i expected to grow up and have intercourse and that it would give me an orgasm. i am now in my 30's and have managed to have orgasms other ways, but never that way, so my guess is i never will. i realize this is not that unusual, but i still get really down about it and the result is i don't want to have intercourse very often, at least not as much as my partner does. to me it's just a cruel reminder that he could get his other girlfriends off this way but i can't have the same experience with him that they did. this creates a strain in our relationship. how can i cope with this differently? i don't want to put him through unnecessary pain.
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