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How do i get him to compromise???

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before being with me my fiance was with a girl that took total charge of im and always made him to things for her it was never both ways. Now that he is with me, i told him he can do what he wants when it comes to sleeping together, but now it is always rough and tough his way and i can never add in my opinion.But in the same right i dont want to hurt his feeling what do i do?
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Sounds like you haven't told him how you feel or you fear that he will respond negatively. I think you need to tell him how you feel and what you need from him during sex.
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You need to let him know what you like as well.

"He can do what he wants" is okay sometimes, but sometimes...it should get to be all about you too.

Perhaps a nice bottle of wine, and seduce him on the living room couch? It's not as easy to be rough when you're the one sitting on top of him...
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In a word: Communicate!
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