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Let me start by saying that even though I am 36 years old, having an active adult sexual relationship is new to me. So, with that in mind I am looking for a little advice...
My SO is coming by tomorrow morning for a visit (we each have two children, so being alone in the evening is difficult to pull off).
The other day he saw me in my robe for the first time and it completely turned him on. It was really cool - I just threw my robe on to run into the kitchen and he thought it was the sexiest thing. (Funny how everyday things do that, huh?)
Anyway, I was thinking that maybe when he gets to my house tomorrow I might just greet him in my robe (and nothing else, of course).
Is that weird? How do I do this without it being awkward? I really think he would appreciate my letting him know that I am "ready" the minute he gets there and there's no need for small talk. I am just not sure how to set such a scene without being so over the top that I completely freak him out and make him think "who is this woman?".
Any thoughts?
My SO is coming by tomorrow morning for a visit (we each have two children, so being alone in the evening is difficult to pull off).
The other day he saw me in my robe for the first time and it completely turned him on. It was really cool - I just threw my robe on to run into the kitchen and he thought it was the sexiest thing. (Funny how everyday things do that, huh?)
Anyway, I was thinking that maybe when he gets to my house tomorrow I might just greet him in my robe (and nothing else, of course).
Is that weird? How do I do this without it being awkward? I really think he would appreciate my letting him know that I am "ready" the minute he gets there and there's no need for small talk. I am just not sure how to set such a scene without being so over the top that I completely freak him out and make him think "who is this woman?".
Any thoughts?
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
That's what I would do ;)
Woohoo!!! I'll bet he absolutely loves it!!!
Fake the confidence bit!! I'll bet you that within the first second, you won't HAVE to fake it!!!!