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has my libido gone

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i ve gone off sex with my partner but i still do it alone now and then , its not to do the sex part,, but just for the orgasm really coz sometimes i m/b when im not in the mood but it works so i do it still, but when it comes to my partner, im nver in the mood to do it with him ?/
anyone else like that
(i must add that i dont have orgasms when we have sex never have )
does this mean i still have a libido or not ???
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I don't think anyone would be that wild about sex if they couldn't have an orgasm, but maybe that's just me.

You can take a supplement to help get it back to normal. You may also have low estrogen.
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IM ON the 'pop' progesteron only pill dont know if that is making me like that??
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well I am trying this progesterone naturally cream from Rite aid... just a squirt a day and rub it in on various areas of your body... arms legs neck face etc. just alternate... it has been a week and I DEFINETLY can tell an increase in libido. It is like I am raging horny, but I was ANTI sex mood before due to chronic pain... the first few days it eased the NO factor and then last night I initiated.. Just wanted to fondle and touch all over him. It was all good, Soooooo dont know if this is a a coincidence SP? but I will let ya know if it stops meanwhile I am creaming up everyday!! We need the closeness right now with all the stress we are enduring. and even if we werent stressed, sex just is good for the body. LOL!
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sounds to me like your libido is fine but your "libido" toward your partner is the problem. You need to figure out why. Are you still attracted to him? Are you communicating with him at all about you inability to achieve orgasm with him? Maybe you could talk to him and tell him to give you one like you give yourself. Show him ya know. If he's a learner and worth teaching. I don't know if I helped ya any.
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YES HAS AND TOOK MINE WITH IT IF YOU FIND BOTH PLEASE RETURN
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I can TOTALLY understand what you are saying I'm in the same boat. We are having ALOT of problems right now so sex is jut not at the top of either of our lists. It stinks because I use to have a REALLY high drive and so did he I think initally that is what brought us together but the spark has just fizzled. We are trying to work on it but I don't know. All I know is if there is a drug out there to help BOOST my libido...PLEASE tell me where I can buy it! :-)
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