I was wondering if anyone could give me some insight on how much guys want to have sex? How much do you think about it? My husband has historically had a low sex drive. I've been trying to spice things up, trying all kinds of things, initiating a lot- but it's almost like he's just doing it to appease me. He says it's exciting and he seems to be happy that we're doing all kinds of new and crazy stuff but if I waited for him I'd be lucky to get it once a week. But he seems so detached in a way. And honestly after we do it once, I want to do it all day and night for a day or so, and he's not interested. I ask him to wake me up in the morning, he hasn't done that yet- he'd rather get things done around the house. I try to think he just has a lower sex drive than me but I can't help but think he's not attracted enough to me or something and I feel rejected. BTW we have been having marital problems and just started doing good again, and he is stressed about money, his job, and other things he's doing like coaching football. But wouldn't he want to come home and forget about all that with me, to relieve some stress and have fun?
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