Anything she didnt want to! would also try anything she wanted to!

What if you wanted something, and she wanted to do anything to please you? Would you ask?

That depends..on the level of your relationship..you use the word 'partner' in you orignal post, so I am thinking you mean long term relationship.

If you wanted something and she would do anything to please you, assuming this is indeed a long term relationship, I would guess that you already had a pretty good idea what the answer might be..

are you trying to ask something specific?

Nope! im down for anything pretty much

Sure I would ask !

Okay, maddiesdad. When my hubby and I were together there was nothing off limits. I mean nothing. I am alone now (we are divorcing), and really like alot of the things we did. I am too timid to ask a guy for those things, and wanted to know if guys will just ask if they want it.

Gotcha..that's makes sense. It depends on comfort level. I am not in a relationship right now, but can't imagine asking for anything 'special' sexually for awhile. There has to be a comfort, a trust built up. That being said, if you are comfortable with a lot of things, and through conversation, that comes up and he is confident that you are open to many things, he might feel more comfortable saying something. It's so dependent on the person, the situation and the timing, it's hard to give a definite answer. But it's a great question, I just think you have to really figure out the variables first.

I am not one to vocalize what I want, just my reactions to what is being done. That makes it tough.

I' am convinced the key to great sex is open honest communication with an equally open mind set.

I'am also convinced that the key to having a relationship that will stand the test of time is open and honest communication with an equally open mind set.

So yes ask away and give to one another as that is the gift of healthy happy sex AND long lasting relationships.

But don't ask if you don't give, don't expect to recieve if you don't give.

A relationship always has two sides and two desires.

Open honesty, and willingness from both partners to try anything will fullfill any and all fantasies no matter how freaky, or forbidden they are!

I have some that would be called freaky and forbidden.

Short of painful, sure. But it would be clear that saying no would be fine!

So ask anyway, it's about exploring together, enjoy let loose the social boundries and do what pleases you and your parnter together...

Just read down... I would GREATLY appreciate a g/f telling me what she wants. It is always hard on a guy to figure it out as we grow up with the resposiblity being ours to ask for the date, make the first move, etc. Tell him and if it freaks him out, chances are it wont, then do you want to have less exciting sex for the long term anyway??

take your date, and push his head down there..he will get the idea