The man I have thought might be for me told me something the other day. I told him I had lost 25 lbs and he said he never noticed. Others have commented on my "new" body but when he said he had not noticed, I guess he is out of the running. That makes me sad. He has asked other women for sex--plain and simple. Me, never. I thought it was because I was plus size and he said he didn't like big women. I was never big but just built like a fireplug. No, I didn't lose weight for him. It just happened because life got complicated. Facing the new reality is pretty clear now. It is hard to move on but I have done it before. Wish the next one will be my true mate. Tired of the frogs in my life!
my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years now and we have two kids together. Through the years we’ve both had to work on our jealousy issues (especially me). I’m not ugly but because I was bullied about my looks from a young age and have had horrid comments made to me about my looks etc I’ve had a hard time changing my thinking. Anyways the point to my question is. Am I a bad...