
Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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After a really long unhealthy marriage, I am left with serious insecurites regarding sex. My ex cheated on me for 5 of the 12 years we were married. When confronted on this after the split, he said it is because I am cold. He also told me that the only reason any man would look at me is for my body. That I am a warm body and a receptical for cum. That I should never expect more. Now whenever faced with sex with anyone, I hear him in my head saying these things to me which makes things awkward and leaving me feel empty. How do I get past this and have a normal healthy sex life?
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He must have just been trying to hurt you for some reason and justify his cheating ways!
Was he the dominent and controlling type of guy? I dated a guy like that once and he would say things similar.
(I hope this is not offensive.)
Take it as words, nothing more, nothing less. The problem isn't with YOU, it's with him, obviously. So now that you are away from a man who obviously objectifies women, fall in love with yourself and find someone who will fall in love with you too.
That is terrible. Wow!
What is the point of sex, other than creating another life, if you can't enjoy it... Sorry hun:(