Thats horrible what he said to you and its just not true!!
He must have just been trying to hurt you for some reason and justify his cheating ways!
Was he the dominent and controlling type of guy? I dated a guy like that once and he would say things similar.
(I hope this is not offensive.)

He was very emotionally abusive and although deep down I know what he said isnt true, I still cant help but wonder if maybe he could be right....

Oh man oh man. Sorry you even had to go through that. If you were a receptical for cum, YOU would have been doing the cheating, not him. And since he was the one, he probably thinks all women are recepticals for cum. You may be a warm body, but you are a warm, loving, caring body..that deserves the best. How can you get past it, and have a normal, healthy sex life? You're already on your way, you're no longer sleeping with the most unhealthy kind of person.
Take it as words, nothing more, nothing less. The problem isn't with YOU, it's with him, obviously. So now that you are away from a man who obviously objectifies women, fall in love with yourself and find someone who will fall in love with you too.

I am sorry you had to experience this. Your ex was wrong to say such things to you. They were intended to hurt you. You must know that what he said is not true. When his words ring in your head try to say to yourself the exact opposite. Tell yourself positive things that you know are true. I have been in emotionally abusive relationships and I often go through the same thing. I hear their words loud and clear and wonder if there is any truth to them and it hurts me. I also am very inhibited. I am still trying to get past all of this. It is very hard.

No one deserves to be treated like that. That is abusive. You will get past this-it may take time. Have you thought about counseling?

man, I'm sorry. No one should ever be treated that way. You need to at least care for each other.

WHAT A LOUSY FUCKER! Sorry, but that just pissed me off. Fallengod, you deserve respect and you can get past this. I know it must be tough being told all these things, but most men enjoy the beauty of women (at least most on here do) and esteem them. Find you one that does and go from there.

men can be so hurtful. And the only reason he said that to you was to make feel bad about yourself. Its hard to realize that those things are not true when You've been mentally abused for a long time. But, know that they are not true and that not all men are a-holes like he was.

Thank you all so much :)

well, how to get past this... counseling, alot... and if you can't afford it, contact a woman's shelter, thet will be able to help.

As angry as I am with my wife right now, I would never, EVER stoop that low. That is a nasty fucker for having said that too...boy that pisses me off. It makes all men look like a bunch of creeps. Women are not mere recepticals for cum. They bring us into the world...what an asshole!

Counseling I guess...

That is terrible. Wow!

What is the point of sex, other than creating another life, if you can't enjoy it... Sorry hun:(