After a really long unhealthy marriage, I am left with serious insecurites regarding sex. My ex cheated on me for 5 of the 12 years we were married. When confronted on this after the split, he said it is because I am cold. He also told me that the only reason any man would look at me is for my body. That I am a warm body and a receptical for cum. That I should never expect more. Now whenever faced with sex with anyone, I hear him in my head saying these things to me which makes things awkward and leaving me feel empty. How do I get past this and have a normal healthy sex life?
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