Well I am new to this forum and am a little embarrased about this subject but im getting to the point where i am willing to take advice from people that i dont know. I've been with my girl for almost 8 years now since my junior year of high school and I love her more than anything in the world. But lately our sex life has been coming to a screeching halt. I understand that we are both very busy having recently graduated college and started our careers, but i still have the same drive i did in the beginning. If it were up to me i would have sex with her 3x nightly bc i think she is so hot. We've gone from once a day, to only on weekends, to couple times a month (and she does it out of pity). When i confront her about it she makes me feel guilty about wanting sex but i cant help myself. It is getting to the point where my self esteem is at an all point low bc i dont think i "do it" for her. I have always had a little issue about this bc she is very very attractive and i would consider myself average. When I try to talk about what we can do I get no answers or suggestions. Ive even tried losing weight and working out(I have an athletic build w/ a little extra 5'10'' 195lbs) but she would just tell me how big my arms and chest were getting and ignore the other stuff. The scariest part is she gets so defensive as to say go find someone else that will make you happy. I'm sorry im rambling its just i dont know what to do. Any ideas???
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