Everyones opinion is different but mine would be fuck buddies are stupid and shallow. Dont mean to offend anyone, if you cant keep it in your pants for the right person then why bother trying for a real relationship when all your worried about is getting a piece of ass...in my opinion dont get a FWB, watch some porn, relieve the stress and move on, atleast you wont regret putting your goodies somewhere they may not belong...Just my opinion...no offense to those who disagree.

I had a few FWB back in my teens and then after my divorce in my 30's (would have had them when I was married to the fuckwad who fathered my kids even tho I dont condone cheating but he would have literally beaten me more than he already did) . Now that I am older tho sex with no emotional attachment and preferably love is just not what I am after.

Personally, I really don't see anything wrong with it. I had a FWB many years ago that got me through times when I was between relationships. But be careful, if one of you wants to take the relationship further you could lose the benefits and the friend as well! Both parties have to understand that there are no strings attached. Sometimes it works out sometimes it doesn't.

as long as you are single and both of you have your head on straight then its great. but belive me Jealousy will occur if you don't.
It's not that easy..

I happen to be with a FWB and it's divine. We only see each other once a week but do a lot of living in that time. As long as one or the other doesn't fall in love (at least in a possessive sense), FWB can be very loving and the sex can be great.

Just like in a romantic relationship, two friends CAN love each other, but without the possessiveness that always seems to come from "committed" status.

I suggest a career-oriented woman who doesn't have a lot of time for a relationship (that's what I've got).

no its not cause people tend to get hurt like that badly

Nobody can tell you if a FWB with work for you. If you are the type that can handle a sexual relationship without love-and you find a partner that is open to the idea, and you both COMMUNICATE. It can be a very healthy relationship. but withouth the communication, it can be a disaster.

One point I want to make, I think true FWB have emotions for each other. They care about each others welfare, they rejoice in each other's achievements and often are there for each other's disappointments-they are friends. But, The very open discussion is that there is not a committed relationship marching towards (gasp) marriage. And when you do move into a committed relationship-your friend can become just a good friend.

All of the above are right for their own particular reasons and beliefs. When i left my sexless marriage back in May of last year, i had my share of FWB's and FB's (fuck buddies). Sometimes yeah i just popped in a porn and jerked off, but there are the times when you just want a nice, REAL warm partner to have sex with. I didn't want a relationship so i went onto Craigslist and another adult dating site and found a couple. It was great for all parties involved. We communicated before hand end knew exactly what the other did and didn't want and stuck with it. Two were just simple phone calls away and within a half hour or so all was right with the world :)
Some people have to be emotionally attached to have sex, and like now when i'm with my gf, i am. But before her, it was just the convinient act of mutual sexual pleasure.

Plus, there's nothing hotter than simply answering the dorr, stripping down and getting hot and heavy, cause damnit, that's what you're there for! ;oP lol Except now my gf does that :)

and if feelings could some how not get in the way
then it would be called fuck buddies which turns out not
being so nice either

Well, like it's been said...if you even THINK you may have a problem with emotional attachment or anything like that, then i highly recommend you not to do it. I mean i had one that lived about 30 minutes away and a phone call. It was literally walk in, greetings, head upstairs, suck and fuck, get dressed, maybe exchange a few little pleasantries, walk right back out the door, releived and satisfied.

SHIT, I'M MARRIED, AND IT WOULD BE A DREAM COME TRUE TO BE ALLOWED TO HAVE A FEW FWB'S AROUND, BUT THAT COLD DAY IN HELL ISN'T COMING ANYTIME SOON. I DON'T SEE ANY PIGS FLYING AROUND EITHER, SO IT JUST AIN'T HAPPENING.



IF SOMEONE IS WILLING TO OFFER YOU SOME PUSSY, IT'S YOUR GOD GIVEN DUTY, TO FUCK THE LIVING SHIT OUT OF IT, AND MAKE HER BEG FOR MORE. I'M JUST SAYIN' (KATT WILLIAMS)

I just feel the need to add that the person that posted right before me now gus whatever, YOU ARE A PIG and your dick should be knifed off, you dont deserve to be married. There are tactful ways of saying things and GOD GIVEN has nothing to do with fucking some random stranger, as a married man you should have a little more respect. I dont care if people get pissed at that. YOU ARE A PIG!

I think if you are stong enough not to get emotionally attatched then a FWB could work.. I had one, and we are still friends now with no benefits cause its going to end one way or the other. But its being open and honest with each other about what is going on in the relationship (yes it is a type of relationship). You STILL need to have respect for each other.

I know others will disagree, but there are points in our lives when we are not ready for a commitment. Mine happened to be after my divorce and I'm trying to work on wanting someone steady in my life. wow mouthful! LOL

I'm pretty sure Gzus was simply quoting someone Dehevana, see the name (Katt Williams) in parenthesis.

I understand that longhaul but looking at his response, he obviously agrees with it and to be married and wishing you could have FWB still makes you a pig in my book, marriage should be a commitment between two people not husband, wife and husbands fuck buddies...Sorry if I piss anyone off, just my opinion, not looking to get in a bitch fest about it, as I am sure we all have better things to do with our lives....I dont have an issue with those who dont agree with me and I respect that but to be a married man and put something so friggen Pig like up there...just dont fly in my book...it doesnt have to though...to each their own...