
Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

koolman
How often do you people (in steady relationships) need it (and get it)? I'm trying to get a feel for various age groups, should I happen to meet someone I like who likes me...
When I was 21, I was obsessed with sex, because it was new, and I could've done it 3-4 times a day (thank God my mom didn't find me wanking off). Now, at age 43, I'm cool with once every other day; I could probably wait a week.
I don't want to be too boring for someone, and I don't want to be a total freak that scares her away either...
When I was 21, I was obsessed with sex, because it was new, and I could've done it 3-4 times a day (thank God my mom didn't find me wanking off). Now, at age 43, I'm cool with once every other day; I could probably wait a week.
I don't want to be too boring for someone, and I don't want to be a total freak that scares her away either...
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I'm 38, H is 40 and we've been together 21 yrs. Never tire of each other (at least not in THAT way!)
In fact he's going to have to find a job fairly quickly when he gets here. I don't care if he gets one not making a ton of money. His income will simply "help" keep my stress level down.
He does rock my world in more ways than one and I'm very excited about finally being able to see him every day instead of once every other month.
EVERY FUCKING DAY!!!
That about says it all!