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IMHO - even innocent 'harmless' flirting can lead somewhere, given the appropriate situation.
a come on is a deliberate attempt to tempt someone into the sack I don't mind a comeon but when it's so glaringly obvious that the guy making it is a creep/predator out looking to use someone and not always in a good way. i personally hate obvious bullshit that someone will spew at me and expect me to believe it.
alright rant done
Blatent come on = icky
(I still have this bizarre fantasy that one day I might actually manage to have real sex with another human being :)
Erm, I can't really say for this site - a joking comment on a public thread is harmless, but I definitely wouldn't want to get any explicit private messages or invitations to meet up, that would be crossing the line. Anything in between, I'll judge on an individual basis.
I have decided that 5 years is long enough to go without.
I have that same bizzare fantasy
Alot of people are just flirts by nature :)
basically, if it breathes, I flirt with it.
The point at which it becomes something more is if it were something that, if you were in a relationship with someone else, you either wouldn't do in front of them, or wouldn't want them to know about!!
A come on can be a little much, but flirting, flirting is a good way to get to know someone and who knows!!