Hello, Ive been with somone for 3 years, lost my virginity to him and planned on spending the rest of my life with him. Hes an amazing guy yet theres always been an issue because hes pressured me into anal sex, says its his favorite thing and it means so much to him. However it hurts me real bad and I make it clear every time but he doesnt care that it does. Ive cried during it and he doesnt care. I guess with him being my first love I try to do anything for him. He didnt use to want it that much but since the beggining of the year hes wanted it once a week. I dont understand how this almost perfect guy can do something knowing it hurts me but I guess I made the mistake of caving in and saying I would do it. Its been 3 years and Im realizing I cant take it anymore and I told him, but now he is making me choose between that or staying with him. What we have is pretty great, but this.... Am I the horrible one for changing my mind? He keeps saying how dare you change things after 3 years, it just hurts so bad and I worry about future problems with it. The thought of leaving him scares me so bad most other things between us are perfect but I guess I just need to hear somone elses opinion I cant talk about this to my friends. Am I the horrible one for changing my mind? Id appreciate any opinions, thanks
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