Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
ok so i have had one vaginal orgasm in the last like 2 weeks and we have sex at least every other day. and i have had like 3 clit orgasm (i hope you all understand what i'm saying) i just think that scince my boy has been born, i've become less sensative and i think my "lips" have gotten bigger. when me and my huband go t o have sex its hard for him to go in because i have vaginal dryness(from lupus) and then my "lips" make it hard to slip in. does anyone know if my "lips" will shrink back down. and what are some good tips to help with the orgasm problem? my friend works at a porn shop and said a "g"spot vibrator might help. but i want actual sex or penitration. any segestions?
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try a warming gell of some kind it gets the juices flowing and heats things up
bigguy3
More foreplay ... ?
deleted_user
i hate to be the barrer of bad news, but your lips will never be the same after a vaginal birth. im sorry Use some lube and he will just slide right in.
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