
Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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I feel like i'm just NOT big enough, for most women, some, but not most, my last girlfriend, told me I was thick enough, but NOT long enough, that hurt, or should i be concerned at all, it's the only thing I think about when I meet someone, and were hitting it off, will I be able to satifiy her sexually, will she accept me for my size, anyone feel the same. I'm sure someone can relate. please help?
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I had a friend who's ex was so big it hurt her because he'd hit her cervix. I had another friend who's lover's penis was essentially non-functional but could bring her to multiple screaming orgasms because he knew where/what/and how to stimulate her g-spot and clitoris *simultaneously*. (Gotta love opposable thumbs.)
Also, if you are open and willing to discuss options without becoming defensive, it'll make it easier for her to bring it up. Are you willing to try a penis sleeve/extender? Did you know they exist? Are you willing to use toys and dildos on her without becoming threatened by them. When was the last time you practiced cunnilingus?
I have been with average, decent-sized lovers, some of whom have rocked my world repeatedly in one session and some who have not. It all depends on their attitude, willingness to be a "learner" and experiment until you find what works, and desire to make their partner's satisfaction equal to their own.
Only to shallow women.
My husband is only 5 inches long, but 5 inches in diameter...thats what feels good.
aslong as its not a needle, most wont ever complain.
To be honest, even the longest/thickest dick isn't necessarily going to hit the right spots - that's what fingers or a good curved vibrator are for.
Until men evolve enough that they can do that 'beckoning' motion with their dicks, size is never going to be that much of an issue either way. Hope that thought at least made you laugh!
I agree that there is MORE to sex than penetration!
Maybe your last girlfriend had a vagina the size of a cave.
It's not just about penetration. You have to give each other some attention befor that ever occurs!
What you need to do is go into situation thinkin, "I've got this!" A lack of confidence is probably bringin u up short also. B/c ur in the wrong mind set!
I can't talk 4 all women but I happen to like a man who oozes with confidence. You can see it all over them! Man does that turn me on!